It’s resolution season again! Time to see how well I did with my 2010 goals and set some for 2011. Last year was not one of the better ones I have on record – two car accidents, no job, no grad school, and no boyfriend – so seeing it relegated to the history books doesn’t break my heart. Even though I’m far from being an optimist, I’m looking forward to a better 2011. So, to review, 2010’s resolutions were as follows:
- Reduce the size of my big behind! A rather cliché start to my list, but something which must be done nonetheless.
+1 – I am happy to say my rump is smaller. Not by much and nobody will be asking me to model bikinis or anything, but I have lost some weight and that’s good.
- Swear less – particularly behind the wheel.
+1 – I do swear less, especially behind the wheel. It’s because I’ve been doing less driving, but it still counts. As hard to believe as it is, I do think that I cussed less in 2010. 😀
- Be more understanding (See resolution #2) and more reliable.
+.5 – While I have made strides in the “understanding and tolerating” department, and my reliability improved a little, the car accidents did a number on my reliability.
- Better manage my finances.
+1 – I have gotten better with my money largely out of necessity.
- Be more positive – view the glass as half full as opposed to half empty and possibly poisoned.
0 – Despite my efforts, my outlook remains less than sunny. It hasn’t gotten any bleaker, though, which is good.
- Make a perfect beouf bourguignon.
+.5 – While not perfect, my beouf bourguignon certainly is quite tasty.
- Find a market that sells duck, buy some, and make a meal with it that’s as good or better than the one I had New Year’s Eve.
+.75 – I have found a couple of places where I can buy duck and I made some that was good, but I still need to perfect it.
- Take my GREs AFTER PROPERLY PREPARING FOR THEM!
0 – Without a job and without much hope for one in the foreseeable future, I think this has to be put on the back burner for a while. Grad schools, aren’t going away and if I’m smart enough, I’ll get to one eventually.
- Stop feeling guilty, responsible for, or inferior due to things beyond my control.
+.25 – Marginal progress. When you’re a person who likes to be in control, it’s hard to deal with not having much of it.
Out of a possible 9, I have ended this newly passed year with a disappointing 5 – barely passing, but passing nonetheless – on my resolutions for 2010. Since there is nothing I can do now but vow to do better, that is what I shall attempt with this year’s resolutions. And with that, here is 2011’s Resolution List.
- Read at least one nonfiction book and one biography a month. Just because I’m not in grad school doesn’t mean I will allow myself to be uneducated. Besides, there is no such thing as being too well-read. That knowledge might come back to help me somewhere down the road.
- Mat, frame, and hang the painting I bought the week before I lost my job two and a half years ago. I still love it, so it should be displayed and enjoyed.
- Be a better blogger. Post at least three times a month.
- Be more positive – view the glass as half full as opposed to half empty and possibly poisoned. It’s a carry over from last year, but whatever.
- Continue to thin out because I’ve still got way too large a booty.
- Get involved. I would love a job, but at this point I’m all but convinced that I’ll see menopause before I see another paycheck, so I just want to have something to do that benefits someone other than just myself.
- Roll with the punches. Very little of my current situation is well within my realm of fixing and that will bother me greatly, but it’s better to just keep calm and carry on, as the saying goes, rather than dwelling on it and being miserable.
- Save any cash I scrounge up for a new computer (and an iPad) and, once I get said computer (and an iPad) give the one I’ve got to my father, because the one he has at work is practically an antique. It’s a perfect goal – money management, thinking of others, and the reward of new electronic gizmos. I think I can do this.
- Work for some part of time this year even if I hate the job to no end. Because computers (and an iPad) don’t buy themselves.
So my resolution total for this year is also 9. Let’s see how I do.